I desperately want a baby boy: what can I do to make sure this happens?

I get a lot of emails from women and couples who really want to conceive a boy and want to know what they can do to make sure that happens. There are many reasons for this, but I don’t get into the debate about whether it’s right to prefer one gender over another. Many want a man to carry the family name. Some couples already have a daughter and want the opposite experience and some women want to give their husband or partner a child. All of these reasons are completely valid, but I know these people would love to have a daughter, so I don’t worry about any of the debates that sometimes accompany this discussion. Instead, I focus on how to help them reach their goal, which I’ll discuss in the next article.

Learn what you must overcome to have a baby boy: There are a couple of obstacles that stand in your way if you want to have a son. First of all, the Y sperm that produce children is weak and vulnerable. You may not think this would be the case. Many of us assume that since adult men are sometimes physically stronger than women, then male sperm would be the same. Although this is not true. X sperm (which produce daughters) can last days longer and stay strong despite long distances and hostile PH.

So the time frame you have to work with is definitely less. You will have to be more precise with your time. You can’t start trying to conceive a boy too early simply because this practice will favor having a girl (since the boy’s sperm don’t survive this long window).

Therefore, you want to wait until you get an unquestionably positive reading to prove that you have ovulated. Note that I didn’t say when you think she ovulated and I didn’t say it starts in the middle of her cycle. I said positive reading which means without a doubt. (I hate to keep dwelling on this, but I see a lot of people make these mistakes.) Get an ovulation predictor that you can trust 100% that is easy to use with very clear instructions. I actually like saliva and I really stress this if you are trying to conceive a girl because you need to know your ovulation days in advance which is more difficult. Here, you just need to know after the fact, which may be a bit easier. Still, you need to be absolutely sure that you are trying to conceive on the right day. You can continue to have sex in the days after you ovulate, but frankly, these Y’s are only a couple days old anyway and your egg is only viable for so long.

The next thing you’ll need to overcome if you’re trying to have a baby boy is a high pH. Even a normal pH is questionable. You want a very low or alkaline pH because anything higher will be hostile to those little AND weak, struggling, but hard working people. Simply put, being acidic is bad for them. Being alkaline helps them a lot because they don’t have to work their way up when they’re already weak. You can become more alkaline by eating only foods with a low pH. You don’t want acidic foods and you don’t want foods that are even somewhere in between. You want foods that are the absolute lowest on the scale. There are very extensive food lists that can help with this.

You can also take a shower. This will often produce more drastic results, but sometimes they are only temporary. You can see your trend using PH test strips (this is also a good way to start). You can also use them to see if you are staying stable at your target level. And it is absolutely necessary that you wear them on the day you are trying to conceive to make sure you still have the green light.

The last obstacle you have (besides time and pH) is distance. You don’t want to make these guys work more than necessary. Therefore, you can use deep penetration when having sex to ensure that the trips are relatively short.